top of page

Scarlett's Story

Greetings!  I’m Scarlett Cougar, a mid-aged codependent marriage survivor, everyday superhero, and card-carrying member of the Kiss Army. While it may appear that I can channel through a juiced up natural redhead, Celtic in virtue and intent on exhausting my 8th pacemaker… Really, I'm a collective of thoughts and experiences of The Sisterhood.  


I am the eldest child harvested in the Great White North, relocated into the middle-class neighborhood at the birth of Silicon Valley, California. Your typical freckled faced tomboy.  After high school I fooled around exploring the 80’s with wild abandon featuring stunning hairstyles, then eventually went back to college to become a Graphic Designer… then again returned to The Academy to become a Cosmetologist. It was here that I was privileged to honor The Truth Serum Chair of Hairstyling for 22 years... had thousands of very real conversations, (of which the details remain in the vault.)


In the interior of my adultish 30 years, I acquired 2 Wasbands as I was applying my (non-workable) codependent formula attracting the same type relationships, which often resulted in douchbaggery.  Having carved out a big life, (that is stranger that fiction), ultimately I was forced to realize my biggest fear WHICH leads me to finally figured out the meaning of life…  Be Fearless, truly.  After all, you too are someone’s everyday superhero. WTYM.

The Department of Redundancy Department

Who is Scarlett Cougar?
A Spiritual Intention ~ To acknowledge The Sisterhood, be heard and assist in a life path shift, by speaking to it with raw candor, and offer ideal reactions, perspective, and hope. Your best thinking got you into this mess... let’s try something neutral on, share few laughs and get on with it! 
A Short Version   ~ This scribe started off the ramblings of a gal surviving emancipation from a co-dependent marriage,  through an even messier separation and expensive lengthy divorce. Whilst having to navigate her ego though all her biggest fears… seemingly by herself and resistant to changing her thinking. 
A Spiritual Twist  ~ She took on creating a new life as a single woman in her 50’s with a new spiritual shift in perspective about herself and this mortal coil.  
A Disclaimer ~ She’s no shrink, has no degree in human behavior, nor is a spiritual practitioner.  She IS thriving Hair Designer of 23 years, with a wand for beauty and a truth serum styling chair. 
An Observation ~ Having had 1000’s of intimate conversations over 23 years.  She was privileged to have been trusted by and to have learned from her fascinating and real clientele.

A Snarky Addendum ~ Scarlett’s pocketbooks are shorter versions of larger thoughts in her book  The Spiritual, yet Snarky Purrspective of Ms. Scarlett Cougar.  Most experiencing this transition feel alone and embarrassed.  She speaks frankly about the paralyzing fear realized in divorce and how to quickly disarm it.
bottom of page