7. Makeup & Brows

 ~ An EXCERPT from:  "Eight Upgrades to Emerge Divorce your Gorgeous Self "

 It’s time to review your makeup collection. If you cannot recall when you made the purchase, then into the garbage it goes. Especially mascara... so here is the t...

7.  Add a NEW Community or Class

  ~ An EXCERPT from:  "Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce"

Your real friends and family are priceless, but it is time to expand your community with fresh ideas and new trust.  The shock of your reality may challeng...

6. Dudes Stuffing the Box

  ~ An EXCERPT from:  "Eight Curiosities of Women about Modern Online Dating"

Besides the onslaught of Cubs, you need to prepare for the “quantity approach” in
dating solicitations called Cut & Paste.  For this very reason, it is a good ide...

6.  Your Personal Style 

  ~ An EXCERPT from:  "Eight Upgrades to Emerge Divorce your Gorgeous Self "

     Your personal style should be something you revisit every season.  Don’t just reload last seasons “old reliable” rotation back in. It’s time to be consist...

 6. Get a Therapist... Chip-Chop-Chip

An EXCERPT from:  "Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce"

    Take it from Scarlett, if credentials go unchecked, you may find yourself in front of a recovering alcoholic, part-time real estate agent, and now part-tim...

5.  Winks vs. Favorites

  ~ An EXCERPT from:  "Eight Secrets to an Effective Online Dating Profile"

     There is a limit to the number of WINKS you may send a day.  (“Winks” might be equated to note-passing of elementary school, only more detached.)

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5.  Facials, Botox & Fillers 

  ~ An EXCERPT from:  "Eight Upgrades to Emerge Divorce your Gorgeous Self "

     Your skin is the largest organ of your body, and the one we neglect and UNTIL it
starts so show signs of age.  Then we want to invest in ma...

5. “Mutual” Friends... Let your REAL Friends Show up

  ~ EXCERPT from Scarlett's pocketbook "Eight Best Reactions to Shift Out of a Messy Divorce”

     Mutual friends and even family may be aloof about the separation, NOT acting as they might EXPECT you to behave i...

4.  A Bigger Presence Trick -OR- Top Spot  

  ~ An EXCERPT from:  "Eight Secrets to an Effective Online Dating Profile"

     Match.com and most of the dynamic dating engines are designed to cater to the users that interface with their accou...